I am sitting here wondering what it is about a newly single woman that makes men think that they can treat me like I need or want them. When a man approaches you that you have know for years or less and finds that you are now single it does not mean "HIT ON ME PLEASE." I am not turned on by this nor am I even slightly interested in it. I am more complex than that and do not need to have a man in my life to be fulfilled. I can create my own happiness and for all out there I actually prefer it that way. I do not want to know what you think of my body or what you would like to do with it, because personally that is disgusting to me.
I want and need to be free to be me and that is what I want. I still believe in love and know that it is possible to have love but I don't believe it is started with lust. Lust is an instant gratification and never lasts. Love is an eternity even if you don't stay together. Lust and desperation are not words that are who I am and who I want to be. Just because I am attractive to you does me you are attractive to me and acting that way really makes you less attractive.
So anyone out there that thinks I want that should reflect on themselves before they ever approach me again.
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