Choices

Over the past week I have been dealt with some pretty tough blows from a couple of friends and they were not meant to hurt me they were meant to show me their thoughts and troubles but they were directly related to me. So here I am to get my thoughts off my chest about what I feel about these things.

Everyone in life will make choices and those choices are not mine. I will never judge or sway those choices others will make even if they are not the choices I would have made. Let me elaborate on this thought some I do not care what you do with your life because I chose you as a friend for who you are and this means standing with you for whatever road you may travel on. My beliefs may not be the same but my no means do I feel that my beliefs and choices are the only way to go, if the whole world was just like me we would be one crazy messed up world.......

Yes I am getting divorced, but do I think that all of my friends should become divorced? No way I still believe in the sanctity of marriage and all the wonderful things that are associated with marriage and to be honest with everyone I had a very good marriage but we just are too completely different people who want two completely different things in life and that made it hard to keep the glue together. He is still one of my very good friends and I speak to him often so this was my life and my choices not ones to be made lightly or by anyone else.

Yes I am straight but do I think that everyone in the world needs to be this way , heck no be who you are and be with whomever will make you happy. Life is too short to live otherwise and please introduce me to your significant other. Many people are afraid to tell me that they have a different view on who is right for them because I am a Christian and so many Christians attack the lifestyle of  gay man or woman. I am here to tell you now I will never judge this because you can attack right back at my chosen lifestyle or past. I have done many things that go against what is right in the Bible and I will one day face my judgment for it. So I don't feel it is right to judge you I am not better or more right than you are. Also love is so hard to find in life so when you do find it hold onto it no matter what others may think is right or wrong. I will punch them out for you if they say something

Yes I have made so many mistakes in the roads I have traveled on but that doesn't mean I am not a good person or have good intentions towards you. I can be cold hearted and lash out at others when I feel like I am being backed into a corner. I am a natural flirt but hat does not mean I want to sleep with you. I may tell you whatever it is on my mind because I am sorry I WAS BORN WITHOUT A FILTER. I am who I am and that is all I can be, and as a friend I would ask that you feel open to being who you are because that makes you YOU.

I recently told a couple of friends about how I feel about them and this is truly how I feel about all my friends. As your friend I will walk beside you when you need the company, I will stand behind you when you need some strength, I will stand in front of you when you need protection, and I will leave your travels when you need to be alone. I am always just a phone call, a text, an email, a skype conversation, a fb chat or msg away so please call on me anytime you need.

So back to choices go out today and make as many choices as you would like that will fit into who you are. Do not be afraid to make a mistake I will help you pick up the pieces to start all over again. I will applaud you and be your personal cheering section when you it is right for you. I will cry with you when you needs someone to cry with and I will bury all the bodies when someone wants to judge you for your choices.

Without the love of my friends and their support I do not know how I would have gotten through some difficult times in my life. Without the love of my friends who would I go dancing with. Without the love of my friends I would not be so blessed and in my opinion I have a BLESSED LIFE!!! Love you all